To my beautiful nieces,
I have made several mistakes as a woman, daughter, aunt, and fiancee. I don’t want to see you go through the hurts I have. To have to learn the lessons the hard way. I want all of you to find God’s perfect mate for you. I don’t want any of you'll to undervalue yourselves or look for a man who only shows the outward appearances of the qualities below.
I know in our society it is easier to let go of a few of your ideas in order to date the guy who is good looking, or the guy with the better job. But in the end, you are hurting yourself. By letting go of what you know to be right, you will only end up with unhappiness.
You are so special, so wonderfully made, so uniquely made. Made for one man, who is out there for you. God has a plan for you, and if that plan includes a future with a spouse, God will bring you together. You won’t have to work at finding him, you won’t have to settle for anything less than you deserve, you won’t have to accept anything less than God’s perfect plan for you.